I am looking for my match for all my life, so quite long. I know very good whom I want to lets I describe you my ideal. From another hand side, I will try to be flexible as sometimes people find their happiness outside their requirements: I haven't but will try to be more open to what life brings...
I am looking for my match for all my life, so quite long. I know very good whom I want to lets I describe you my ideal. From another hand side, I will try to be flexible as sometimes people find their happiness outside their requirements: I haven't but will try to be more open to what life brings to me. If we don't match, we can stay good fellows, fellows are never too much: people can exchange insider information or help each other. But my main focus is still: life-long relationship. So, ideal:
Age maximum equal to mine and who also is looking for someone similar: I look very young because of my type of look: very little and skinny with "baby-face", so someone who looks older even my age will make a picture of Leon and Mathilda with me.
Height: my fetish is tall guys, 6 and higher who prefers little girls (I've checked, they exist!) Light-haired and eyed, who likes black-haired and green-eyed "witch" (me). As for body type (body type = lifestyle) - equal to mine. Otherwise, we have too many quarrels in food preferences and activities. I am an organic geek and moderately sporty. I will not match both "fast-food lover, beer, watch TV" guy but neither "I can't live without a gym, smoothie, guacamole" person. All we are have some specific look based on our own lifestyle. That's it about the look.
Personality. A nice, honest, loyal, sincere guy, who will be focused on life-long relationship and able to truly love and care for someone, is open to anything, as long as it's with someone he loves. Old-fashioned, not mainstream, independent and logical thinking. I am alone for most of my life, so I prefer someone clean of the relationship as well, who doesn't feel empty being alone for years. Maybe who were focused on career and now is ready to find his second half. Who considers me, the way I am, his ideal as well, because I was working hard all my life to be this way.
I have pretty tight requirements to the personality of my ideal man, less, but some of those - for your look, but I am totally indifferent of anything which is not you. And expect the same back. Not you = your dress, your location, everything which is not dying when you die (sorry bad example but very clear).
But the main thing I am looking for and not ready to be flexible in are 3 values. As people get these words very formal, and not mean in - explanation below. My honesty is: when what you want (actions, under cognition, strong spiritual core), matches what you think you want (thoughts, cognition, mindfulness), matches what you say (the one exact truth). My loyalty at this stage means absolute mental and physical freedom of other choices if you decide to get to know me as a life partner and declare it with words or actions. We can stay in a friend zone forever otherwise, with friends I don't have this value - I have a lot of friends around the globe and for years. My sincerity at this stage means we have the same goal (life-long relationship) and we are open to getting to know each other to achieve this goal only. Not "I will see how it goes", "I will see what I feel", chemistry and other popular stereotypes. Hopefully, a person who is looking for a life-long partner has at least basic scientific sexology knowledge, so also have not to stereotype about "sexual compatibility" in his brain. If not, here is the main thing: if you like the look, voice, behaviour of each other (find it sexy) + you don't have unsolvable sexual problems or working on solvable + you know and you've discussed your perversions and found it at least "ok" for each other = you are sexually matching.
I know that my life values are shocking for majority crowd, but I grew up in a regular family, studied in obvious schools - universities, worked on regular work = it must be at least one person similar to me on the Earth.
